Registry

In the middle of the recent blizzard (the one that someone how dropped 33inches on Chittenden County and missed us...), we decided to venture to Bed, Bath, and Beyond for all things wedding registry. And let me tell you, three hours of "we want this, we want that" is both entertaining and draining. We felt a bit selfish and completely spoiled by the entire process. Imagine if people actually got us all of this I kept thinking. Where would we put it? What would we do with the old stuff? We'd have some SERIOUS thank yous to say.

The Vera Wang dishes were too beautiful for me to pass up, I must admit. They had me at hello.

Save the Dates

Hi everyone! Those of you reading this get the inside scoop. We won't be sending save-the-dates. Initially, we hoped for a small wedding, but as the guest list came together, it grew, and grew, and grew. We are hoping that by not sending one, we might get a few less yeses (it that actually a word?). So, you'll get your invite next summer, but nuttin' until then!

Justin Bashaw

Reader
Marlboro, Massachusetts

Justin is one of Becky's closest and oldest friends. They met in high school, became fast friends, partied their way through college (Justin at UMass and Becky at Champlain), and have maintained a lasting friendship even though they've lived several hours apart for years. Justin is a teacher, working with Autistic students in Massachusetts and is also getting married (to the lovely Tiffany) this coming July. Becky will be reading in his wedding as well! So much love my dear friend. Looking forward to seeing what the future holds for both of us.

John-Eric Colley Robinson

Groomsman
Middlebury, Vermont

John-Eric is Ben's brother-in-law, father to Chelsea (our flower girl) and Isaiah (our Godson), and husband to Ben's sister, Jill. He has always made Becky feel like part of the family and for that, she and Ben are grateful. JE is an amazing Dad and a very important person in our lives. We can't wait to see you and the little man up front!! xoxo

AMERICAN FLATBREAD!!

It's official, our wedding guests will be munching on local, organic, flatbreads and we are SOOO excited!!

Bridesmaid Dresses

The girls ended up liking the same dress, so it looks like they're all going to match, which shocked the hell outta' me!

We went to the bridal show at Shelburne Farms yesterday, which was a good time. Free champagne, a box of goodies for the bride, fabulous munchies and good company - can't beat that combo!

Flowers are up next on the agenda. I've decided that I love plum calla lilies with pops of bright green. We're still hoping to get American Flatbread to cater. I finally got in touch with them and they said the date was still available. Some people don't get it, but it's what Benny and I want, so we're doing it if we can.

Mom-in-law Sue booked our plane tickets for Mexico! I CAN'T WAIT!!!

Love to you all!

B (&B)

Evan LaCompte a.k.a DJCre8

DJ

Burlington, Vermont

Yet another local connection! Evan and Becky used to wait tables together at NECI way back in the day. Since then, Evan has become a rockin' Burlington DJ at some of the most popular bars downtown (Red Square, RJs, etc). We trust that Evan will get people off their chairs and on their feet until the weeee hours of the morning!

Brian MacDonald

Photographer

Jericho, Vermont

We've learned one important thing during this process, even though we've only just begun - get married where you know people! We are so lucky to have so many connections in the area. Becky works with Brian at Saint Michael's and he's the campus photographer, as well as the head of the Web Department. He's got a good eye and a nice camera - a great combo !!

Sunni Eriksen

Reader

Montpelier, Vermont

Sunni is Becky's cousin and has recently become a very dear friend. We spend a lot of time with she and her husband Mike–seeing music, taking trips, and just hangin' out and cruisin' around town. After the Eriksens returned to VT from Portland a couple of years ago, we started to hang and realized how much we have in common! Now that we're moving to Waterbury, Sunni and Mike will only be about 10 minutes away! Love you!

Joe and Mel Danaher

Parents of the Bride

Hinesburg, Vermont

Anyone reading this knows who Joe and Mel are. They're the poor souls that had to deal with Becky during her oh-so-unpleasant teenage/early college years!! Ben and Becky spend quite a bit of time with the Danahers, from dinners in the Burg, to blueberry picking, seeing live music and trips to Maine. Mom Danaher is still working for the lawyers in town and doing freelance books on the side. Dad Danaher just left IBM and has started a new chapter in his life, opening Java Joe's Coffee Equipment Service! Spread the word! Becky is looking forward to planning the wedding with her Mom! We love you both so much. Thank you for all that you're doing for the wedding.

Tom and Sue Colley

Parents of the

Groom

New Haven, Vermont

Tom and Sue are Ben parents and Becky can't wait to officially become a member of the Colley! The Colley's recently moved to Vermont from Indiana when they decided to sell Tom's gastroenterology practice and retire. Though not from the state originally, two of their three children and two grandchildren have decided to call VT home, so Tom and Sue decided to join them on the east coast. They've spent the last couple of years building a beautiful home in New Haven where B&B spend as much time as they can. It's a truly relaxing place to spend time with the people we love. We're so lucky and happy that they've come. Look for Tom on the dance floor! Thank you so much for hosting the wedding and for everything you do for us. We love you!

Rev. Jill Colley-Robinson

Officiant

Middlebury, Vermont

Jill is Ben's older sister and mother to two of our favorite people-Chelsea (flower girl) and Isaiah, our Godson that will hopefully participate in the ceremony on some level. She, her husband John-Eric, and the kids live in Middlebury, Vermont where Jill is a Methodist minister. Jill's kind, wise soul makes her one-of-a-kind and we are thrilled that she has agreed to perform our ceremony! So much love to you Sister Jill and we can't wait for your robe-free, swanky outfit!

HONEYMOON!!!!!

Tropical Location = CHECK

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First vacation as husband and wife = CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!

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Noah Roth

Groomsman

Allentown, Pennsylvania

Noah and Ben have been friends since early childhood, having grown up together in Danville, Pennsylvania. He and his wife Rebekah are some of our closest friends. The Roth family continues to grow, as they are expecting their second child, Jane, this coming November. Their first daughter, Anna (Banana), is almost two and we can't express how much we love her. She's changed so much since we met her and is definitely gonna' drive the boys wild! ...Milk drunk...love you guys!

Jamie Clare

Groomsman

South Burlington, Vermont

Jamie is Becky's brother and has become someone that Ben enjoys spending time with. Jamie came into the Danaher's lives years ago and the family was forever changed. He spent many years trying to get Becky's approval (again, Becky with the attitude) and now he has it! We hope that Jamie is as excited about participating as we are! Looking forward to seeing you in a suit again, bro!

Adam Colley

Best Man

Denver, Colorado

Adam is Ben's older brother and someone that means a lot to both of us. We don't get to see him as often as we'd like, but always enjoy it when we do. Adam works in the hospitality industry and deals with the dreaded FED's. He and his precious dog, Kola, love the Rocky Mountains. Can't wait to see you and hopefully it'll be before the wedding!

Chelsea Colley-Robinson

Flower Girl

Middlebury, Vermont

Chelsea is a VERY special person in our lives. She is Ben's niece and possibly the cutest, most kind child on the planet. We love her SO SO much and can't wait to see her walk down the isle. She continues to express her excitement for her upcoming role as "the flower!" We love you little lady!

Sarah Filippi

Bridesmaid

San Francisco, California

Words can't express how much Becky misses her friend Sarah. They met in 2001 at work and quickly realized what great friends they were becoming. She shares Becky's love for music and they've traveled the country in the VDubs seeing shows and shaking their booties. Sar moved to California a few years ago (shortly after B&B met) and is missed dearly. They've managed to see one another a couple of times a year and hopefully that will continue. We're so happy to have her in our lives!

Kelly Thibault

Bridesmaid

Williston, Vermont

Ahhh...Miss Thibault. Kelly and Becky met freshman year of high school and quickly became partners in crime. They've shared a lot through the years and she will be forever remembered as the fifth roommate that never had to pay rent. Kelly works in South Burlington for the city and hopes to get out of Vermont sometime soon to explore something new. Becky will miss her like hell if she goes, but wishes her the best! She'll be the one with the ponytail ;-) xo

Kelly McCarron

Bridesmaid

Boston, Massachusetts

Kel is Becky's oldest friend. They met WAY back in the day as Girl Scouts and have been friends for most of their lives. She and her boyfriend Josh (soon to be finance, hopefully!) live in Boston, Massachusetts and Kel is quickly advancing in her career as an accountant. Becky can't wait to share all of the upcoming girly events with her!